He has been a lesson that you have to be equally yoked with the one you are with. If you do not share the same ideals as your boo, there will be issues.
Examples of an off balance yolk:
- My ex liked to smoke weed... a lot. I did not.
- My ex did not work much. I did
- My ex was involved with people that were thugs. I say fuqathug.
- My exes glass was always half empty. Mine was half empty too, but I knew that it could overflow any second from now.
- I believe and education can solve a lot of issues. He did not.
- I don't believe everything is a conspiracy theory. He does.
Anyhoo. I never thought that being L7 was a bad thing. Not until I met that muthaugga. I digress again. Time will heal my bitterness. I hope.
I value a square.
A square will:
- get up in the morning
- go to work
- come home
- stay for dinner
- use his paycheck to help the household instead of blowing it at the club or weed or whatever.
- will be on his shiznit
- will be honest
- have the right things high on his list of priorities- work, education, family
A square is not:
- a thug
- irresponsible
- a dummy
- Someone I would like to marry